User blog comment:Lovecherry456/Im new and I'm not liking it already/@comment-24651308-20170425164436

Apologies for the bad experience already, we only have a handful of active staff at the moment and trust me, we are very overwhelmed and trying our best to fix everything.

It's true that new users may not know all the rules, but the first thing you should do when joining a wiki is check the rules. We have a template on every suggestion thread which says "Make sure you qualify to vote", I understand that it's easy to skim through a thread and completely miss this but this is one way we try to stop this. We've had so many problems with new users not simply reading the rules that older users are extremely tired of this.

There is NOTHING wrong with critism, what;s wrong is how people give it out very rudely. When people give out critism, they're just trying to help and have you understand that maybe your OC really is a mary sue. However, if someone critizeces an oc and is extremely rude, that's very uneeded and actual harassment. Simply kindly giving critism is NOT harassment in any way.