Board Thread:Apply For Staff/@comment-32156269-20170902203957/@comment-26928286-20170903191340

Ahh sorry sekira I also have to oppose for the reasons I opposed JustAPerson's application.

You didn't say anything except your requirements and "I'm cuter than Trump". It was not explained why you think you could help the wiki, giving off the impression that maybe you want to be staff for a shiny new username color or user tag on your profile, not because you want to be helpful.

You aren't taking this seriously enough. In the discord you're known for joking a lot, and that's fine, but it's situations like these when you need to learn to "switch" and take things seriously.

Even Legend does this. When someone is ranting, I've seen him act genuinely supportive. It's apparent that you might not react the same way, and instead, as Pistach stated, you have outright interrupted someone with an unrelated topic while they were busy getting something serious off their chest.

I did a little investigating and I'm pretty sure the derailing situation was: Vick was venting about having images of harming himself, and then Sekira jumped in with something about frozen popcorn. I'm going to take an example of why this is shitty and hurtful from my own irl experiences.

I have very very bad misophonia. Although I am glad to say I don't self-harm, I have many times before (and lately I've also had images of it), but only because of a sound, not a personal problem. My parents are pretty supportive but whenever I ask them to stop making a trigger sound they usually make a joke about it, even though I tell them it makes me feel laughed at and like my entire problem is a complete joke. It makes me feel like it's not even real and I'm just, in summary, a whiny emo attention-whoring five year old with hypochondria. Another irl friend constantly did this when she found out and calls me an edgelord so that's great. The fear of that is actually why I hid my bruises and scars.

So that might be how Vick felt when that happened. Invalid, like a joke, or maybe like an edgelord. Once again, the reason I hid my scars was because I was afraid of that. Idk people react to things differently but please have some empathy and don't make people feel that way.

Again, like Pistach said, the joking thing has gotten too far. I recall one instance of you making vore jokes on the Discord, and when (I think Crabby maybe) asked you to please tone it down because it was making him uncomfortable, you dmed him more vore jokes

While you're a friend of mine and I personally like you, I've concluded that you are too immature to be on staff again. I apologize if the giant essay on why you wouldn't make a good staff member is hurtful at all to you. I still think you're a good contributor and wiki user, but I don't think you would make a good staff member.